Nelson Mandela 1918 – 2013

Nelson Mandela, our father has died.

The man who believed in full equality for all, for everyone everywhere … One of the most remarkable human beings of all time

By Melanie Nathan, Dec 05 , 2013.

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Our beloved Madiba, Nelson Mandela, has just died. With deep sadness we extend our condolences to Madiba’s family and all of South Africa. As much as we hoped this day would never come it has. Our hope is that Madiba rests in peace and that South Africa remains at peace.

At 95, we could not have hoped for much longer a life on this earth, and as prepared as we were,  we still need him. And we always will. Even though his political days were well behind him, his presence prevailed as a beacon of continued hope for a country that still suffers on so many levels.  There will never be another Nelson Mandela in this world.  We know that the former South African President and the anti-apartheid hero will live on in our hearts forever, yet it is so hard to let go of the sense of protection that he continued to breathe into South Africa, while he fought, during his incarceration, after his release, during his Presidency, every moment thereafter, and even during the time he was ill.

I will remember Nelson Mandela as much more than the man behind the demise of that insidious Apartheid, but also as a worldwide icon for democracy and peace, who insisted that never again would any group of South African be excluded from the dignity of full equality. And so when President, he ensured that the new South African Constitution specifically included sexual orientation and gender identity into its protections for all South Africans.

Mandela suffered such great mental and physical torture at the hands of his Afrikaner Apartheid oppressor, and yet upon his release after more than two decades on Robben Island, he had no bitterness. In his quest for truth and reconciliation, Madiba took what could have been a blood bath, and led South Africa to a peaceful transition from apartheid to a real democracy.

What many may not realize is that every living breath of Madiba, continued to fuel hope and dream and now the country must face that he is gone. His passing is real and South Africa faces a turning point, a future without that imperative breath, and now as the country enters a phase of deep sadness and mourning, the dream may seem uncertain.

South Africans hoped this day of his passing would never have to come. I understand the depth of the upset and heartbreak and what that can lead to; Madiba’s passing may bring cause for concern and I hope South Africa remains calm and respectful of his legacy of peace. Let us honor Madiba with a renewed hope for peace in South Africa during this very difficult time.

“He is now rested at peace,” says President Zuma. “Our Nation has lost a son and our people have lost a father…. We knew this day would come nothing can diminish our sense of a profound loss….His community, compassion and his love. Our prayers and thoughts are with the Mandela family. They have sacrificed much and endured much so that our people can be free” said  ZUMA tonight on TV.

Screen Shot 2013-06-23 at 10.52.12 PMThey never spoke about Mandela in our schools, back in those days.Through my childhood in South Africa, I knew apartheid was wrong, but it took until University before I fully understood the meaning and remember those days when I first became conscious of Nelson Mandela and his struggle for South Africa.   My first consciousness of the extent of the injustice and Mandela’s anti-apartheid struggle was while I was a law student as the same University that Madiba attended, studying for the same degree, an LL B at The University of The Witwatersrand, Johannesburg.

Because of the South African laws banning all images and literature about and by Mandela, we had no access to information, except that which we could obtain illegally and read surreptitiously. It was a scary time when many suffered. We were not allowed to read any books or see any pictures depicting Mandela.    The Apartheid government wanted to pretend that he did not exist, and they wanted to keep us from learning about him, for fear of his martyrdom inciting rebellion.

Now in his passing it is the time to ensure that his message of peace prevails and those forces which worked against Madiba, should never be given credence through violence.

I remember when I left South Africa to live in the U.S., in 1985, the first thing I did was find a bookstore to purchase as many books as I could about Mandela. I came home that day and laid them all out on my coffee table, savoring the freedom to read about him. There was no internet in those days. I read and read and read and to this day have kept those books close by, in my bedside drawer, often reading again, as a reminder of the oppression of the time and what my hero had to say, in his own words.

It is so weird for me to be here – back visiting for a few days – and it happens to be when Madiba passes on.

Here are some of the pictures from those books.

It was momentous when Madiba appointed my dear friends, the first openly gay Justice, Edwin Cameron, to the South African Constitutional Court. Both of us closeted at the time, I took Edwin to his first gay club in Johannesburg, during those days of Apartheid. In a million years  we could not have imagined that a mere decade later Mandela would be released and appointing him to the position.  Edwin said: “Mandela appointed me at the end of his first year in office in December 1994 as an openly and proudly gay man to the high court and, 16 years later, I’m a member of South Africa’s highest court. I can truly say my sexual orientation was irrelevant. I think a lot of other things – -political, legal and personal – played a role, but that didn’t count against me. That’s a remarkable achievement.”

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The Rivonia Trial

Nelson Rolihlahla Mandela was born into the Madiba clan in Mvezo, Transkei, on July 18, 1918, to Nonqaphi Nosekeni and Nkosi Mphakanyiswa Gadla Mandela, principal counsellor to the Acting King of the Thembu people, Jongintaba Dalindyebo.

After his father’s death in 1927, the young Rolihlahla became a ward of Jongintaba at the Great Place in Mqhekezweni. Hearing the elder’s stories of his ancestor’s valour during the wars of resistance, he dreamed also of making his own contribution to the freedom struggle of his people. He attended primary school in Qunu where his teacher Miss Mdingane gave him the name Nelson, in accordance with the custom to give all school children “Christian” names.

He completed his Junior Certificate at Clarkebury Boarding Institute and went on to Healdtown, a Wesleyan secondary school of some repute, where he matriculated.

Nelson Mandela began his studies for a Bachelor of Arts Degree at the University College of Fort Hare but did not complete the degree there as he was expelled for joining in a student protest. He completed his BA through the University of South Africa and went back to Fort Hare for his graduation in 1943.

On his return to the Great Place at Mkhekezweni the King was furious and said if he didn’t return to Fort Hare he would arrange wives for him and his cousin Justice. They ran away to Johannesburg instead arriving there in 1941. There he worked as a mine security officer and after meeting Walter Sisulu, an estate agent, who introduced him to Lazar Sidelsky. He then did his articles through the firm of attorneys Witkin Eidelman and Sidelsky.

Meanwhile he began studying for an LLB at the University of the Witwatersrand. By his own admission he was a poor student and left the university in 1948 without graduating. He only started studying again through the University of London and also did not complete that degree.

In 1989, while in the last months of his imprisonment, he obtained an LLB through the University of South Africa. He graduated in absentia at a ceremony in Cape Town.

Nelson Mandela, while increasingly politically involved from 1942, only joined the African National Congress in 1944 when he helped formed the ANC Youth League.

In 1944 he married Walter Sisulu’s cousin Evelyn Mase, a nurse. They had two sons Madiba Thembekile ‘Thembi’ and Makgatho and two daughters both called Makaziwe, the first of whom died in infancy. They effectively separated in 1955 and divorced in 1958.

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Nelson and Winnie

Nelson Mandela rose through the ranks of the ANCYL and through its work the ANC adopted in 1949 a more radical mass-based policy, the Programme of Action.

In 1952 he was chosen at the National Volunteer-in-Chief of the Defiance Campaign with Maulvi Cachalia as his Deputy. This campaign of civil disobedience against six unjust laws was a joint program between the ANC and the South African Indian Congress. He and 19 others were charged under the Suppression of Communism Act for their part in the campaign and sentenced to nine months hard labour suspended for two years.
A two-year diploma in law on top of his BA allowed Nelson Mandela to practice law and in August 1952 he and Oliver Tambo established South Africa’s first black law firm, Mandela and Tambo.

At the end of 1952 he was banned for the first time. As a restricted person he was only able to secretly watch as the Freedom Charter was adopted at Kliptown on 26 June 1955.

Nelson Mandela was arrested in a countrywide police swoop of 156 activists on 5 December 1955, which led to the 1956 Treason Trial. Men and women of all races found themselves in the dock in the marathon trial that only ended when the last 28 accused, including Mr. Mandela were acquitted on 29 March 1961.

On 21 March 1960 police killed 69 unarmed people in a protest at Sharpeville against the pass laws. This led to the country’s first state of emergency on 31 March and the banning of the ANC and the Pan Africanist Congress on 8 April. Nelson Mandela and his colleagues in the Treason Trial were among the thousands detained during the state of emergency.

During the trial on 14 June 1958 Nelson Mandela married a social worker Winnie Madikizela. They had two daughters Zenani and Zindziswa. The couple divorced in 1996.

Days before the end of the Treason Trial Nelson Mandela traveled to Pietermaritzburg to speak at the All-in Africa Conference, which resolved he should write to Prime Minister Verwoerd requesting a non-racial national convention, and to warn that should he not agree there would be a national strike against South Africa becoming a republic. As soon as he and his colleagues were acquitted in the Treason Trial Nelson Mandela went underground and began planning a national strike for 29, 30 and 31 March. In the face of a massive mobilization of state security the strike was called off early. In June 1961 he was asked to lead the armed struggle and helped to establish Umkhonto weSizwe (Spear of the Nation).

Treason Trial Accuseds

Treason Trial Accuseds

On 11 January 1962 using the adopted name David Motsamayi, Nelson Mandela left South Africa secretly. He traveled around Africa and visited England to gain support for the armed struggle. He received military training in Morocco and Ethiopia and returned to South Africa in July 1962. He was arrested in a police roadblock outside Howick on 5 August while returning from KwaZulu-Natal where he briefed ANC President Chief Albert Luthuli about his trip.

He was charged with leaving the country illegally and inciting workers to strike. He was convicted and sentenced to five years imprisonment which he began serving in Pretoria Local Prison. On 27 May 1963 he was transferred to Robben Island and returned to Pretoria on 12 June. Within a month police raided a secret hide-out in Rivonia used by ANC and Communist Party activists and several of his comrades were arrested.

In October 1963 Nelson Mandela joined nine others on trial for sabotage in what became known as the Rivonia Trial. Facing the death penalty his words to the court at the end of his famous ‘Speech from the Dock’ on 20 April 1964 became immortalized:

“I have fought against white domination, and I have fought against black domination. I have cherished the ideal of a democratic and free society in which all persons live together in harmony and with equal opportunities. It is an ideal which I hope to live for and to achieve. But if needs be, it is an ideal for which I am prepared to die.”

On 11 June 1964 Nelson Mandela and seven other accused Walter Sisulu, Ahmed Kathrada, Govan Mbeki, Raymond Mhlaba, Denis Goldberg, Elias Motsoaledi and Andrew Mlangeni were convicted and the next day were sentenced to life imprisonment. Denis Goldberg was sent to Pretoria Prison because he was white while the others went to Robben Island.

Nelson Mandela’s mother died in 1968 and his eldest son Thembi in 1969. He was not allowed to attend their funerals.

On 31 March 1982 Nelson Mandela was transferred to Pollsmoor Prison in Cape Town with Sisulu, Mhlaba and Mlangeni. Kathrada joined them in October. When he returned to the prison in November 1985 after prostate surgery Nelson Mandela was held alone. Justice Minister Kobie Coetsee had visited him in hospital. Later Nelson Mandela initiated talks about an ultimate meeting between the apartheid government and the ANC.

In 1988 he was treated for Tuberculosis and was transferred on 7 December 1988 to a house at Victor Verster Prison near Paarl. He was released from its gates on Sunday 11

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Supporters leave court

Screen Shot 2013-06-24 at 12.54.34 AMFebruary 1990, nine days after the unbanning of the ANC and the PAC and nearly four months after the release of the remaining Rivonia comrades. Throughout his imprisonment he had rejected at least three conditional offers of release.

Nelson Mandela immersed himself into official talks to end white minority rule and in 1991 was elected ANC President to replace his ailing friend Oliver Tambo. In 1993 he and President FW de Klerk jointly won the Nobel Peace Prize and on 27 April 1994 he voted for the first time in his life.

On 10 May 1994 he was inaugurated South Africa’s first democratically elected President. On his 80th birthday in 1998 he married Graça Machel, his third wife.
True to his promise Nelson Mandela stepped down in 1999 after one term as President. He continued to work with the Nelson Mandela Children’s Fund he set up in 1995 and established the Nelson Mandela Foundation and The Mandela-Rhodes Foundation.

In April 2007 his grandson Mandla Mandela became head of the Mvezo Traditional Council at a ceremony at the Mvezo Great Place.

Nelson Mandela never wavered in his devotion to democracy, equality and learning. Despite terrible provocation, he never answered racism with racism. His life has been an inspiration to all who are oppressed and deprived, to all who are opposed to oppression and deprivation.

Hamba kahle Tata Madiba

UPDATED 12/08/2013:

UPDATED 12/09/2013: Facebook Status:

1.  Thousand of South African citizens have flocked to parliament, to monuments, to the homes of Madiba, both in Soweto and Houghton, – people are grieving – singing – dancing- candles, flags, flowers, pictures everywhere – holding services, memorials – all over this country, foreign dignitaries are arriving, his photos are outside every store in every mall. Parliamentarians are singing tributes in true African style in the House of Parliament, walking in processions to flame of remembrance, stadiums are being prepared, there are no cars left to hire, hotel rooms are jammed with journalists, people are wiping tears – this nation is moving and standing still – all at the same time for Madiba. And the hum is Hamba Kahle Tata Madiba… South Africa will always remember these days – We are now preparing in South Africa for over 70 sitting heads of States, members of US Congress, Parliaments, and numerous former heads of states. The service for Madiba will be tomorrow, Tuesday at FNB stadium with many overflow stadiums providing space for the hundreds of thousands of people who are converging on the City. Madiba’s body will be held in State from Wednesday through Friday and it will travel the roads of Pretoria from the hospital to the Government Building each morning. After that time Madiba’s body be flown to Umtata airport in the Eastern Cape and then he will be buried in his birth and home village of Qunu

2.  They expect 2,000 people to pass the casket of #Madiba, each hour as #NelsonMandela lays in State – for 3 days – from 9 am to 5 pm = 48,000 people. Many more will line the streets each day as his body is brought back to the Government Buildings. FNB stadium hold 100,000 people and there will be 4 overflow stadiums in JHB for the official memorial service tomorrow. The family has requested that when Madiba’s body is laid in the ground in his birth village of Qunu, that there be no filming.

Mandela on Robben ISland

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UPDATED 12/10/2013:  President Obama’s Speech at Mandela Memorial:


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23 Comments on “Nelson Mandela 1918 – 2013”

  1. Rod Wright December 5, 2013 at 2:35 PM #

    Dear Melanie, we all have lost a Champion today. May he rest in peace forever and ever. And may we Never forget Him and what He taught us. I know Mr Mandela meant so much to you…I thought of you first. Thank you for the exceptional reporting.

  2. Dr. Rex December 5, 2013 at 3:51 PM #

    Excellent!! My thoughts, my heart, my feelings … they are all with you and your country!!
    May this great human being rest in peace!!!

  3. Dr. Rex December 5, 2013 at 3:52 PM #

    Reblogged this on It Is What It Is and commented:
    May be rest in PEACE!!! He belongs to history now!!

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    Reblogged this on and commented:

  5. Rene December 5, 2013 at 4:01 PM #

    Reblogged this on Mind Chatter and commented:
    Loss of a truly wonderful man. Rest in peace.

  6. Tracesofthesoul December 5, 2013 at 4:36 PM #

    Reblogged this on Traces of the Soul and commented:
    A hero has passed. As the world mourns, let us also celebrate the mountains he has climbed for the world to live in a free society.

  7. Derek Williams December 5, 2013 at 6:05 PM #

    Shared – superbly written, and from the heart, thank you Melanie.

    • Melanie Nathan December 5, 2013 at 9:42 PM #

      Thanks Derek and for your continued support

  8. Paula December 5, 2013 at 8:22 PM #

    Reblogged this on the art of life and commented:
    Let’s please honor his memory and legacy of peace today, tomorrow and years to come! Teach our children to be tolerant, patient and respectful. :) I am thankful for Nelson Mandela, he was and is a great man.

  9. Paula December 5, 2013 at 8:34 PM #

    I love the name of your blog, you must be a beatles fan. :)

  10. jerbearinsantafe December 5, 2013 at 10:27 PM #

    Reblogged this on JerBear's Queer World News, Views & More From The City Different – Santa Fe, NM and commented:
    A heartfelt tribute to the most influential campaigner for human rights of the past few decades. Melanie Nathan really paints a great word picture of why he was so important and why he’ll be sorely missed….

  11. Michael Petrelis December 6, 2013 at 12:19 AM #

    Oops, this is where to go to the petition to Mayor Ed Lee: Please add your name to the petition to San Francisco Mayor Ed Lee, asking him to honor Mandela by lowering the rainbow flag at Harvey Milk Plaza

  12. LOrion December 6, 2013 at 9:31 AM #

    Wonderful piece. It must certainly be fate that you are there and can now grieve with your countrymen. Heart goes out to you and yours.

  13. LOrion December 6, 2013 at 9:34 AM #

    Wonderful piece. It must be fate that you are there now to mourn with your countrymen. Keeping and sharing.

  14. LOrion December 10, 2013 at 9:51 AM #

    President Obama’s speech: TEXT is here from WAPO

  15. Tracy December 10, 2013 at 7:37 PM #

    A great man who lived & died by principles that others can only speak of…stepping forward to be the one who stands in defiance took courage most will never possess.

    RIP Nelson Mandela

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